Gaining Thy Brother or Sister (continued)

Beloved, I desire to continue our series of letters from the subject “Gaining thy Brother or Sister”. If a problem with our brother or sister in Christ reaches an impasse (it cannot be resolved), there is no alternative but to take the next step, however much we may regret the necessity of such action. Beloved, this next step is set forth in the scriptures - “if (they) shall neglect to hear them (the witnesses), tell it (your disagreement) unto the church” (Matthew 18:17). Remember, Beloved, we are still trying to “gain our brother or sister”. Later in this scripture, we will explore more fully this concept, but, for now, we will continue to the next statement.

Precious Ones, the next statement in that verse says that “if he neglect to hear the church, let him be unto thee as a heathen man (an idol worshiper) and a publican (a low-down, sneaky tax collector)” (Matthew 18:17). Again, we will come back to this later, but, for now, let us realize that this severance of fellowship should serve only as a last resort! Furthermore, this is but another step to “gain” the wayward brother or sister back into the fold! Paul taught the church at Thessalonica that “if any man obey not our word by this epistle (the letter I wrote for your instruction), note (or mentally remind yourself of) that man, and have no company with him (no spiritual fellowship), that he may be ashamed (have the time to consider the shame of his disobedience). Yet, count him not as an enemy, but admonish him as a brother” (II Thessalonians 3:14-15).

Chosen Ones, it’s therefore plainly seen that we should never typecast any “brother or sister” as one who worships idol gods or any god other than Jesus, unless we have made every attempt to restore a relationship with him or her. Our brothers and sisters are not heathens, publicans, or people who can’t be trusted, unless they choose not to obey the procedures of the Word of God concerning the settling of grievances.

Children of God, the theme is simple. Love should prevail in every situation. When love is shown, it is only in rare occasions that it becomes necessary to implement further steps in order to bring reconciliation. Love will gain a brother or sister every time.

I will write more on this subject next week. Until then, know this...

I love you all SO very much
In His Love


Pastor William L. McCoy